{"id":27093,"date":"2024-04-12T11:32:50","date_gmt":"2024-04-12T15:32:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/johnesimpson.com\/blog\/?p=27093"},"modified":"2024-04-12T11:32:54","modified_gmt":"2024-04-12T15:32:54","slug":"the-practice-of-counter-inevitability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/johnesimpson.com\/blog\/2024\/04\/the-practice-of-counter-inevitability\/","title":{"rendered":"The Practice of Counter-Inevitability"},"content":{"rendered":"
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[Image: “Something Like (But Not the Same As) Inevitability,” by John E. Simpson. (Photo shared here under a Creative Commons License; for more information, see this page<\/a> at <\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em>RAMH.)<\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em>]<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

From whiskey river<\/a><\/em>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

Probability<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most coincidents are not
miraculous, but way more
common than we think —
it’s the shiver
of noticing being
central in a sequence
of events
that makes so much
seem wild and rare —
because what if it wasn’t?
Astonishment’s nothing
without your consent.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Lia Purpura [source<\/a><\/em>])<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…and<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

There was a silly damn bird called a Phoenix back before Christ, every few hundred years he built a pyre and burnt himself up. He must have been the first cousin to Man. But every time he burnt himself up he sprang out of the ashes, he got himself born all over again. And it looks like we’re doing the same thing, over and over, but we’ve got one damn thing the Phoenix never had. We know the damn silly thing we just did. We know all the damn silly things we’ve done for a thousand years and as long as we know that and always have it around where we can see it, someday we’ll stop making the goddamn funeral pyres and jumping in the middle of them. We pick up a few more people that remember every generation.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

(Ray Bradbury [source<\/a><\/em>])<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not from whiskey river<\/em>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

The Difference Between Pepsi and Coke<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Can’t swim; uses credit cards and pills to combat\n
intolerable feelings of inadequacy;<\/span>\n
Won’t admit his dread of boredom, chief impulse behind\n
numerous marital infidelities;<\/span>\n
Looks fat in jeans, mouths clich\u00e9s with confidence,
breaks mother’s plates in fights;<\/span>\n
Buys when the market is too high, and panics during\n
the inevitable descent;<\/span>\n
Still, Pop can always tell the subtle difference
between Pepsi and Coke,<\/span>\n
Has defined the darkness of red at dawn, memorized
the splash of poppies along<\/span>\n
Deserted railway tracks, and opposed the war in Vietnam\n
months before the students,<\/span>\n
Years before the politicians and press; give him\n
a minute with a road map<\/span>\n
And he will solve the mystery of bloodshot eyes;\n
transport him to mountaintop<\/span>\n
And watch him calculate the heaviness and height\n
of the local heavens;<\/span>\n
Needs no prompting to give money to his kids; speaks\n
French fluently, and tourist German;<\/span>\n
Sings Schubert in the shower; plays pinball in Paris;\n
knows the new maid steals, and forgives her.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

(David Lehman [source<\/a><\/em>])<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…and:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

We care nothing for the present. We anticipate the future as too slow in coming, as if we could make it move faster; or we call back the past, to stop its rapid flight. So imprudent are we that we wander through the times in which we have no part, unthinking of that which alone is ours; so frivolous are we that we dream of the days which are not, and pass by without reflection those which alone exist. For the present generally gives us pain; we conceal it from our sight because it afflicts us, and if it be pleasant we regret to see it vanish away. We endeavor to sustain the present by the future, and think of arranging things not in our power, for a time at which we have no certainty of arriving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If we examine our thoughts, we shall find them always occupied with the past or the future. We scarcely think of the present; and if we do so, it is only that we may borrow light from it to direct the future. The present is never our end; the past and the present are our means, the future alone is our end. Thus we never live, but hope to live; and while we always lay ourselves out to be happy, it is inevitable that we can never be so.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

(Blaise Pascal [source<\/a><\/em>])<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…and:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

Dividend of the Social Opt Out<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How lovely it is not to go. To suddenly take ill.
Not seriously ill, just a little under the weather.
To feel slightly peaked, indisposed. Plagued by
a vague ache, or a slight inexplicable chill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps such pleasures are denied
to those who never feel obliged. If there are such.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How pleasant to convey your regrets. To feel sincerely
sorry, but secretly pleased to send them on their way
without you. To entrust your good wishes to others.
To spare the equivocal its inevitable rise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How nice not to hope that something will happen,
but to lie on the couch with a book, hoping that
nothing will. To hear the wood creak and to think.
It is lovely to stay without wanting to leave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How delicious not to care how you look,
clean and uncombed in the sheets. To sip
brisk mineral water, to take small bites
off crisp Saltines. To leave some on the plate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To fear no repercussions. Nor dodge
the unkind person you bug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even the caretaker has gone to the party.
If you want something you will have to
get it yourself. The blue of the room seduces.
The cars of the occupied sound the wet road.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You indulge in a moment of sadness, make
a frown at the notion you won’t be missed.
This is what it is. You have opted to be
forgotten so that your thoughts might live.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

(Jennifer Moxley [source<\/a><\/em>])<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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