{"id":66,"date":"2008-07-17T06:33:09","date_gmt":"2008-07-17T10:33:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/johnesimpson.com\/blog\/?p=66"},"modified":"2008-07-17T06:33:09","modified_gmt":"2008-07-17T10:33:09","slug":"like-a-candle-in-the-wind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/johnesimpson.com\/blog\/2008\/07\/like-a-candle-in-the-wind\/","title":{"rendered":"Like a Candle in the Wind"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>God, do I love moments of unintended poetry.<\/p>\n<p>God, do I hate the ravages of age which, within minutes, can scatter those moments to the far edges of memory. Then you have to mount a whole frigging safari to recover them&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The Missus and I were on the way home from work yesterday. (We don&#8217;t work at the same place, but we do carpool. Which gives us a chance to talk, to share moments of drama and outrage from the past eight hours, to be present when the other bursts into song or, yes, poetry.)<\/p>\n<p>Her boss and his wife are doing us a favor which, if they can manage it, will be done ideally sometime the next 24 hours. I hadn&#8217;t heard if it was still &#8220;on,&#8221; though, so I asked TM if she knew what the status was <em>Actually<\/em>, she said, <em>actually, no I haven&#8217;t<\/em>. She had me punch her office&#8217;s phone number into her cell phone (she was driving) so she could briefly remind her boss about it. It took 10 seconds, if that.<\/p>\n<p>But the end of the conversation cracked me up. Her half of it went something like, &#8220;Uh-huh&#8230; Okay. Thanks. Just remind me in the morning, in case I forget to ask.&#8221; And then she hung up.<\/p>\n<p>She saw me laughing. &#8220;What?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh, you know. Suddenly I just thought of a saying.&#8221; Which was:<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Don&#8217;t forget to tell me<br \/>\n&#8217;cause I might forget to ask.<\/h2>\n<p>Er, at least we think that&#8217;s what it was. Because, inevitably, when I was getting ready for bed, neither of us could recall the exact wording. I sort of liked the sound of &#8220;Don&#8217;t forget to <em>remind<\/em> me&#8230;&#8221; because the injection of that different word sort of sharpened the irony. Or something like that. (Who knows? I&#8217;ve already forgotten the rationale for mis-remembering.) It was The Missus herself who finally narrowed it down to the above, which &#8212; if not <em>exactly<\/em> what I&#8217;d said, captures the spirit and the, uh, rhythm. It scans, y&#8217;know?<\/p>\n<p>We talked briefly, back when I&#8217;d first said it (whatever it was), of actually getting it printed up, <em>\u00e0 la<\/em> CafePress, on a T-shirt. Or a bumper sticker. 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